It Could Happen to You Too.

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Fight For What's RIGHT

Even If  You're fighting those who appear to be ABOVE the Law....

“Several months later in another attempt to reclaim his missing belongings, my son subpoenaed his accuser to court.  He appeared before a Magistrate Judge, along with several eye witnesses, which included (2) deputies who were there at their own free will to speak on his behalf.  Before he could plead his case, the Judge dismissed the deputies, stating that they had better things to do....and that isn't the worst part.  Something is seriously wrong with our justice system.”

Officer!  My son has a name, and it's NOT "Boy!"

I still have a hard time believing some of the events that have transpired since this nightmare began and the unfair and disrespectful treatment my family received from law enforcement, the courts, and facebook members in our own hometown.  Some of you are probably wondering if my son ever reclaimed his belongings.  The answer to that is YES and NO.  He received some of his belongings back, but with little or no cooperation from the stepmother, it was not a simple process, even with a court order.  It also involved numerous and repeated escorted visits to the residence by multiple law enforcement officers....with the same court order in hand each time they returned before she finally agreed to release some of the items to him.  Her lack of cooperation not only had a debilitating effect on my entire family, but also for the numerous law enforcement officers who wasted a lot of valuable time and resources attempting to serve and enforce the court order.  Repeated visits to the residence became so frustrating for some of his deputies that the Sheriff genially volunteered to speak on our behalf if the burglary charges against my husband and son ever went to trial.  As you can see below, the "Defendants" are my husband and son, who I believe were maliciously set up to be arrested in retaliation.  The alleged "Victim" is the "stepmother;" the same individual who made the false claims, the same individual who continued to unlawfully obtain my son's property for her own use, and the same individual who repeatedly refused to comply with this court order.  Anyone, including a child should be able to easily evaluate this entire situation and understand what's really going on here; recognize the true victims and identify the true victimizer!

Unfortunately, since so much time had passed by the time she decided to cooperate to some degree, some of his possessions were returned damaged and the rest is still missing, including a prized guitar.  Most all of his Xbox and movie cases, 21 to be exact, were returned to him EMPTY with no discs.  (See the pictures below).  What are we supposed to do with empty cases?  There were (2) court appearances that stretched out over a period of several months; one as a failed attempt to get the missing items back, and the other that is totally unrelated to the retrieval of his belongings.  Having my husband and son arrested on false burglary charges apparently wasn't enough for this individual; because what she did afterwards that led to that specific court appearance was so offensive and undignified, the details cannot be disclosed here and resulted in serving her with a "Good Behavior Peace Warrant."  I want everyone to know that I was the driving force behind it ALL; NOT my husband and NOT my son.  This family had entrusted my son to reside at the residence as an extended member of their family in the same manner as he had entrusted them to protect his personal property as well as his honor.  Therefore, I encouraged him to file each court order that was filed.  I will not disclose the specific details and outcome of those court hearings on this website since most of it is too troublesome to believe and I don't want to disclose any names.  However, if you would like to know more please give me a call, but prepare yourself to be shocked.

This heater belongs to me and was in pristine condition when my son borrowed it.  However, it was returned in the condition shown in the 2nd picture.  It's now broken and no longer works.  He borrowed it so that he and his friend could stay warm while they played video games in the pool house.

The purpose of my actions after this happened including the construction of this website was NOT to gain attention.  It was NOT about hurting or seeking vindication against any particular individual.  Most importantly, it was NOT about the monetary value of my son's belongings.  It was about respect.  I wanted to emphasize the importance of treating others with respect and doing what's right.  If we all lived by the same principles of doing what's right, our world would be a much better place.  Discouragingly, even after getting a court order and following all of the proper procedures through Magistrate Court....yes, the same procedures that the arresting officer had terrorized our family over on the day of the arrest, we still don't have answers as to why it didn't produce justice for our family even though this individual admitted to a JUDGE in MAGISTRATE COURT that she had taken the game and movie discs out of their cases, (surrendering ONLY the empty cases to my son), placing the discs in a garbage bag, and then dumping them off at her ex-mother in law's home who swore under oath that she never saw them.  Why would anyone remove the discs from their protective cases, toss them in a garbage bag, take the discs to another location, and return ONLY the empty cases?  The garbage bag of discs, along with other items are now missing.  We don't know what happened to them after that, but I have my suspicions.

This picture is being used for demonstration purposes only and is not the actual guitar that belonged to my son.  His guitar has not been returned to him and is still missing.  It was given to him as a Christmas present at the age of 13 and has sentimental value.  It is my understanding that when the stepmother was questioned about its whereabouts, her response was, "I don't know anything about a guitar."

My son had been robbed of his personal property with no just cause and set up and arrested for attempting to take possession of that property by an officer who refused to make any effort whatsoever to mediate a peaceful resolution to the conflict.  This issue could have been resolved that day within a matter of minutes!  Instead, the officer barked out commands about a court order from a  Magistrate Judge....a court order that is not worth the paper it’s written on.  We desperately tried to put our faith back into the justice system in hopes that the Judge would do the right thing in a court of law, especially after 2 sheriff deputies volunteered to speak on my son's behalf regarding their knowledge and eye witness accounts regarding his property, but we were once again victimized.  Never in a million years did we foresee that the Judge would NOT allow those deputies to serve as witnesses on my son's behalf, dismissing them before he could plead his case, and in the end ruling that there was no evidence that his property had been unlawfully withheld and later discarded, even after this individual practically admitted to guilt!  My son was basically told by the Judge that he should have done a better job in keeping up with his belongings.  Case dismissed!  Again, a court order isn't worth the paper it's written on.  And don't get me started on the stepmother's crocodile tears while once again playing the victim!  What she did was wrong, and she knows it.  The following is a paraphrased statement that came straight from the mouth of another law enforcement officer from the same precinct regarding the occupants of a residence and their personal property.  "If a person has been living at the home of another person and personal property has been left behind, the property owner is required by law to protect that individual's possessionsTherefore, you must be very careful as to what you discard, even something as insignificant as a toothbrush."  If this statement is lawfully true, then why was this procedure not followed involving my son's personal property?

Here's a word of advice.  If you ever take someone to court in Polk County Georgia on a "Theft by Conversion" grievance, forget about obtaining a copy of the Judge's official ruling for your records if you plan to take your complaint to Superior Court.  When we asked for a copy, we were shockingly informed that the Judge doesn't make an "official ruling" unless it results in an arrest.  Basically, there's no record showing that we even took this individual to court.  Where is the justice?  In hindsight, we should've let it go from the start and allowed this person to keep our son's belongings if she didn't want to give them back for whatever reason.  All I can say is that I hope she wants or needs them more than we do and I pray that karma does not return the same fate to her family someday.  Now, we've not only lost thousands of dollars stemming from the items that have never been returned and the costs we incurred from several ineffective court appearances, we've been forced to defend ourselves from false accusations and even worse, felony charges, for a burglary that never happened!  So it's no surprise that we felt betrayed and forsaken by the justice system after watching this individual repeatedly violate various laws and court orders with no repercussions as our family was being crucified.  There have been a lot of sleepless night's filled with worry and confusion as to why the rule of law seems to apply only to certain people.  Some citizens seem to get special treatment while others get rebuked.  Our rights were violated by those who should be protecting us.

Someday, I would like for this individual to take her own children into consideration and think about how she would feel if their personal possessions were wrongfully withheld from them by another parent, then damaged or discarded.  I also want her to know that if our situations were reversed, there would have been a completely different outcome.  The difference between me and this particular individual is that I would have not only gone out of my way to return any and all items that did not belong to me, I would have also voluntarily replaced the monetary value of any items that were damaged or not returned, even if I had to take out a loan to do so.  Most importantly, I would have NEVER made false allegations against one of her children or any other member of her family.  As for the police officer who arrested my husband and son for doing what they were given permission to do all along, (retrieve my son's personal belongings from the property); permission that was granted by the very person who called the police on them, I would like for him to someday take his own conscience into consideration and think about how he would feel if he or a member of his family were robbed of their dignity and freedom over an incident that never happened.  Then think about how he would feel after he reached out for help in an attempt to "right a wrong," only to receive the same rejection and disrespectful treatment that we received.  A badge doesn't grant immunity, and the same thing could someday happen to him as well.  There are so many things that everyone involved, including my own family, could have done differently.

In order to try and make something good come out of this, I want to be an outlet of encouragement and inspiration for the countless others who may have found themselves in a similar situation.  When I reached out for help, I was faced with too many closed doors and too many disappointments, even through the courts.  I can't count the number of times when I reached out for help and built up false hope that I had found that one empathetic person who was eager and willing to help our family fight this injustice, only to have that hope crushed.  I felt all alone.  I still feel all alone.  I'm not saying this to earn pity, but it seems like I've always had to fight my way through life just for the right to survive in this world.  I often feel like I'm fighting this battle alone and I no longer have the strength to continue this fight all by myself.  This experience has emotionally damaged me.  The hurt and fear this has caused was so intense that at times....death would have been better, and I don't want anyone else to feel the same way.  If I can help one person through my family's experience, our pain and suffering won't be all in vain.  We still have a long road ahead of us before we are fully able to overcome this nightmare, but I want to take this opportunity to thank those who have supported us, defended us, and believed in us.  Right now, my primary goal is to work toward clearing their names.  If you have a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, I ask that you please join with me in prayer that this nightmare will soon come to an end and that no other family has to suffer the same fate.  Truth by itself does not change lives when it is spoken.  It only changes lives when it is heard, understood, and acted upon.  Please review the next few pages on this website and help me support a change in legislation to help protect the innocent.  Not everyone who is arrested is guilty.


Please don't say to someone, "Let me know if there is anything I can do to help," unless you mean it.

The next two sections of this website are extremely important since it holds valuable information that could possibly prevent this from happening to others.  But first, I want to switch gears for a moment and share some encouraging, yet heart-rending information about my husband's annual Drive-Thru Christmas Light display, by which he has assembled  and maintained solely on his own for the past 30+ years and is an event that many people look forward to each year.

Aside from his volunteer work in the Boy Scouts of America, his annual Christmas light project has always been one of the most important aspects in his life.  He once told me that it was a way to give back to the community without expecting anything in return.  Throughout the years, he has spent countless hours of his own time, as well as his own money, to make sure this event happens on time.  This involves giving up his weekends for several months, working all day for several days in a row and sometimes throughout the night, especially during the week of Thanksgiving.  During this time it wouldn't be unusual to see him working on his lights around 3 or 4 in the morning if you happen to drive by the house during those hours.  Several years ago, he worked by himself almost 48 hours straight, with few breaks and no sleep to ensure that everything was up and running by Thanksgiving night, even though he was sick with bronchitis.  He even once postponed a major surgery until after the holidays to ensure that he would be physically able to work on his lights. This is proof of his dedication to something he loves.  One of the things that he cherishes the most is receiving letters and notes from people, especially from children, letting him know how much they enjoy seeing the lights each year.  A lot of people don't know this, but he has kept every single letter and note he has received and has documented this information in a notebook.

After our family struggled over what seemed to be one of the worst afflictions a person could experience aside from death, my husband seriously considered relinquishing this project on a permanent basis.  He has health problems that has gradually slowed down his pace and sometimes makes it difficult to complete this annual event in a timely manner.  Sadly, after my husband and son were arrested for something they would NEVER do under any circumstance whatsoever, he found himself struggling emotionally as well as physically.  His lack of motivation and energy virtually died.  Nevertheless, he had the support of family, friends, and several compassionate citizens who cheerfully and willingly volunteered their time to help with the project in 2014.  He even received help with wiring problems and manual labor from two Georgia Power affiliates from the service organization, “The Citizens of Georgia Power.” Although he greatly appreciated and accepted any help that was offered, it still didn’t bring back the person we all knew.  He often said, "My heart's not in it right now."

This event not only brings enjoyment to so many people in the community, it also benefits youth development organizations such as The Boy Scouts of America.  For the past several years Boy Scout Troop 21, where my husband serves as the Scout Master, has held what is known as "Scout Donation Night," where all of the boys in the Troop stand outside for several hours in full uniform, passing out candy canes to visitors and taking donations to raise money for summer camp.  He wanted to take the financial burden off of the parents, so 100% of the proceeds went into the Scout fund and paid the fees for every boy in the Troop to attend summer camp at no expense to the parents.  Holding onto the important reasons why he offers this event to the public, year after year is what ultimately changed his mind about terminating the project and kept him going.  For now.....

If you look forward to this annual tradition and would like to see it continue for many years to come, please send my husband your encouraging words and keep our family in your thoughts and prayers that we are able keep the project going since He is still struggling emotionally and is no longer physically able to work on it alone.  Please pray for peace, closure, and justice for our family.

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